Do not self-deprecate

That is, do not put yourself down, do not belittle yourself, do not devalue your self-worth. YOU ARE NOT PERFECT. Yes, you may have played a role in the reason why the relationship ended. However, YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE, the relationship failed. Sometimes, no matter how hard we try to make it work, it just will not work. Consider and come to terms with the fact that the relationship was just not meant to be.